May Day : The Day We All Forget..

International Labor Day just whizzed past us. A day not too different from any regular Sunday for many of us. But the day has special significance for me. It reminds me of the time I had when I was working in a site in Mahua Khera, a teeny tiny hamlet lost somewhere in the map of India. That was the time when I was exposed to a whole new world. I came in close contact with laborers.  I must say, whatever plans and policies we make, hats off to them, for it is they who – with their own bare hands ultimately give shape to the world as we know. All for a pittance of payment.

They create swanky malls, they build wide smooth roads, and they are the power behind the power plants. They build the huge warehouses and granaries. They put the 8 in your 8 percent GDP growth numbers. They are India’s greatest exports – building the modern engineering marvels of Dubai and other Gulf countries.

But not for him are the fancy Armanis or Lee/Levis. He will still settle for his own shabby cotton rags. Not for him are the BMWs and SUVs which will ply on those Expressways. He will smile travelling on a bus after bargaining for tickets with the rude conductor who would all the while be abusive. Not for him is the electricity produced from the power plants, which will power up your computers so that you can download your movies or lead the Conquistadors to the gates of the Huns in Age of Empires. He will have his own kerosene lamp, or the community bulb. Not for him is the exotic spread of Japanese or Lebanese cuisine in restaurants. He will happily gorge on his homemade food, which I know from experience tastes divine.

I must confess, the only laborers that I was exposed earlier were the fancy workers in Age of Empires, who would be obedient and work like machines. Somehow, the thought permeates our minds that the workers are like machines – and we expect outputs from them which are sky high. Thoughts like fatigue and tiredness of physical exertion are clouded by our cushy lives. I am glad, those thoughts were scrubbed clean by the wipers of life.

There were some lessons that the humble laborers taught me – which changed my perspectives and grounded all the high flying thoughts in my minds. Lessons like toiling hard, fixing a smile on the face, keeping it simple, communicating with simplicity, persistence and team work. If today I struggle with bull crapping on a topic, I owe it to them.

Many a time, I would stand in the shade with the drawing sheet spread out and telling a laborer what he has to do. He would not understand the technicalities; instead he would always ask the pertinent and relevant questions necessary for him to proceed with the work. Not for him were what the codes said, why the necessary details were needed etc. etc. He would have a simple view of life.

He would listen to all my whining of how crappy the weather was. But his smile probably hid the fact, that the weather had become his ally – and he could handle it. Indeed, I have seen workers slog it out in 40 degree heats, where steel literally burns and scalds. And also in freezing 5 degrees, where the limbs become too numb and stupefied to move.

He would be raring to get to work, so that he could at the end of the day, earn what can be described as the lowest salary possibly payable by the builder. All so that he can eke out his living and ensure that his family lives to see another day without starvation.

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But the most important lesson that I learnt was – faith. The humble laborer does not trust contracts. He does not care for what the rule book says. It is the power of your words – the reassurance and empathy in your tone which comforts him. I had workers risking their lives while working for me, all for the timelines to be met – which were made up in the air conditioned confines of an office over copious cups of tea. It was a power which I, in my ignorance at that time, did not fully comprehend. Thank God, no accident took place under my careless watch. I will forever be grateful to god for his benevolence. For the worker, the only thing that matters is your word. Hell hath no fury like a laborer scorned.

It is scary for me to think, how people can exploit labor. It would take a really, cold, merciless and possibly dead heart to play with the humble labor. There have been many laws made to preserve their rights and impart dignity to their lives. But somehow, the managements still find convoluted loopholes to service their own greed and satiate their desire for power at the expense of those who are the lowest class in our society. There is a view among the corporate czars, that labor rights and development can not go hand in hand. And that the labor class exists to service their whims and be exploited. A very colonial kind of mindset it is.

The poor workers know not, that May Day is their day. But I hope that this year we all, in our own small way, strive to make the world a better place for them. All they need is respect and reassurance. Not too demanding are they! With an empowered workforce, we will surpass all projections of growth and progress. May the force be with them!!

P.S: I worked at a power plant in Uttarakhand, on the foothills of Himalayas.  At one stage, I led a team of up to 50 workers – an experience for me like no other. It will rank as the steepest learning curve for an urban brat like me. The “He” above, can as easily be replaced by “She”, who were a lot more persistent compared to their male counterparts. Respect, definitely earned by them!

Why Chennai can’t and won’t speak Hindi !!!

I have observed a post become very popular. Many friends have been raving about it. I thought it would be wise to analyze the post and see if it really is a good stand. It is about this one dude, who says that Learning Hindi is pointless for people in Tamil Nadu, and it is because…

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I have produced the text of the page verbatim (spelling mistakes included), and my elementary response alongside:

Recently, I’ve been barraged on Facebook with status messages from my friends who when to Chennai for their summer internships. (Not on FB, but yes – I do get a lot of feedback from my friends too). To summarize all the status messages in one line, (A single line generalization can often reduce truth to absurdity. Devil always lies in the detail) people weren’t exactly happy with Chennaites not being able to speak in Hindi. (I have never met anybody who has complained that people not speaking Hindi is the only reason why they are having problems in Chennai) To all those people, let me ask you a simple question –why should they? (I pray that they speak some thing which an outsider can understand – it is common courtesy)

People who can speak only Hindi expect that everyone else in India should speak Hindi (I disagree, they do not expect – but wish. In an ideal world, if everyone spoke the same language – a lot of miscommunication could be avoided) and this is based on the assumption that Hindi is the national language of India (It is the Official language) and it should stand true to its name by being spoken across the country (Well, official languages should be spoken – at least in matters of Administration). Allow me to correct such beliefs by quoting that as per the constitution of India, Hindi is not the national language. In fact, India doesn’t have a national language and it doesn’t need one (Whether it needs one or not, depends on how you define a “National Language”)This fact acknowledged by Gujarat High court as well (See, even the High Court mentions that Hindi is an “Official Language”) So it would be prudent to lower the expectations which were supported by a myth rather than a fact. (I do not see anyone forced to speak in Hindi. As long as no one gets hurt, what is wrong in having expectations?”)
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Now to the most important question. Why won’t Chennai learn Hindi? (Why is this THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION ?) There is a two edged answer to this.

One – Love of Tamil. (Love of Tamil translates to hatred against every other language – that is no love, Sir) Do you know that Tamil is the only classical language (amongst the eight in the world) still to be in practice? (We are proud of that. Hats Off! So how is the language being promoted in other states of this country. People globally should be exposed to the wonderful works of Tamil) Being more than 2300 years old, the language has stood its time and is currently spoken by more than 8 crore people across the world. It even has official status in three countries other than India (It’s actually 2, but that’s off the point – Singapore and Sri Lanka). Sanskrit, India’s oldest language and mother of Hindi couldn’t do that (Is there a competition? Sanskrit has influenced dozens of Languages.  Sanskrit evolved, mixing with many other languages, such that today we nonchalantly use many words which have a base in Sanskrit. Also, is there a rule that languages which are more used as “Official” are greater or better?) Why? Because People just love the Tamil language. (Incorrect, if people loved Tamil on the scale that you are trying to paint, your friends would not have spammed you on your wall.) Fortunately or unfortunately, (Why say unfortunately and be apologetic?) the language is very close to the people than you can imagine. (How does one measure if a Language is close or not? If its your mother tongue, its fine. Be proud. No one asks you to prove it.) And this reflects in being supportive any to Tamil community outside the country irrespective of what is right or wrong (Irrespective of right or wrong? Blind support?? That is downright condemnable. And as for the support, broad consensus is that most of the support is only lip service. Frankly, it would be nice if the support translates to action – and leads to uplifting. And why be so myopic and support the Tamil community only.) Read this article (Sorry, the link provided is not working) by an American Professor why he thinks that Tamil deserves the classical language status. (Why would his opinion be more valuable compared to your own friends, who in a very obscure way – are indicating that something is wrong with the way the might of a language is being projected)

Two – Fear. (Aah, maybe this was point number one) The more you love something, the more you’ll be afraid that you’ll lose it one day (The solution is to lock up the valuable thing and avoid change?) And you’ll do everything at your power to protect what you love dearly. (Is everything in your power being done?) That’s what people in actual power in 1960s did by opposing point-blank to the proposal of making Hindi as the national language based on the fear that nationalizing Hindi will slowly erode Tamil. (By launching a violent agitation and point-blank decimation of other languages – especially Hindi – from the cities) A fair and a justified fear. (I do not see how it is fair and justified? Languages like Marathi, Gujarati, Kannada and Telugu – etc etc, have all survived. People speak multiple languages, and that projects an openness which is very warming to an outsider)

There are several points that I can put forward to enforce my side of the argument. (A few logical ones will do :P )

If you travel to Tokyo/Beijing, do you expect people to speak in Hindi? (I do not expect, but yes – it would be great if they did) Obviously not Hindi when you can’t expect them to know English either! (Well, I expect them to know English at least. Else it will be really troublesome. In fact, their Governments understood this , and took up English education on a war footing.) Will you complain that English is a global language and they should have known it? (Well, I would definitely whine about it to my friends) On the same note, why should you expect someone in Tamil Nadu to do so? (Not expect, but desire! And “Something” does make people in other states pick up more than one language.) Because, it is a part of India? (That would be stupid. The expectation arises from being a part of a more open society, less hard-nosed, and less adamant. In fact, ask your intern friends if it would be cool if people here spoke even a smattering of English) The greatest strength of India is its diversity in languages and sustainable cultural diversity (Sustainable – what gives us the Idea that Tamil culture is not sustainable if people speak more than one language?). Don’t try to nullify that strength by expecting the entire nation to speak in a single language.(If people speak more than one language, they weaken the nation??? OMG !!!)

If you are moving to a land that doesn’t speak the language you do , the onus is on you to learn the new language (and the people who do move to a new land eventually do learn to survive – it is called adaptability) and not the other way around.(Incorrect, it is a mutual responsibility – throw in a few words in his or her tongue so that at least they feel a little welcome in a new place.) When I moved to Hyderabad, I knew neither Telugu nor Hindi, but I managed to learn a bit of both. (See, you adapted. And that is important. It is a very good trait.) And even in Mumbai, I managed to survive with the half-cooked Hindi I knew. (So, Hindi became a sort of common platform for you. You could survive in Hyderabad and Mumbai with it. It is important to have THAT common platform – be it English or Hindi .) Most importantly, you should have sorry-i-don’t-know-please-help-me attitude and not something like god-you-dont-know-hindi. (It would be nice for some reciprocal warmth instead of the OMG-YOU DONT KNOW TAMIL”) The latter will get you nowhere.

And finally it comes to personal choice. Nobody in this country stops anyone from learning Hindi. It’s just people don’t choose to. (True, and that often leads to many complications. But hey – free country Zindabaad!! Democracy Zindabaad!! and Free Speech Zindabaad!! Where would we bloggers be but for these gifts.)

The above arguments are not only for Tamil. It stands true for other regional languages such as Telugu (another language that I’m very fond of), Kannada, and Bengali which are much older than Hindi and boasts of richer literature. (Saying Hindi literature is poor – is false. When you have not read the literary works, you are going on hearsay. I have heard Hindi speakers say Hindi literature is rich, and Bengali speakers say their literature is richer. The fact is – both are rich. You and I can simply not judge which is better. Literature is meant to be enjoyed, not judged.) These regional languages have stood their time too and I would watch with glee when they make it to the classical status as well. It’s sad that Indian government has done nothing to further the growth of the regional languages across the country. (There are two ways you can look at it – Say thanks to the Govt that they have ensured we have not degenerated into a thousand states, and we see unity in our diversity. Or chide the Government for the millions of things they have not done regarding – like say poverty, corruption, law and order etc etc etc.) And the state governments take it upon themselves to protect the language and their actions sometimes come as being fanatic (sometimes they really are!). (So, we do agree on something at the end of it all. Only, I hope we stand up against such fanaticism of both – State as well as fringe elements of the society)

I do agree that not knowing Hindi does add to the communication problem when people from different region interact. But I would prefer the solution in the form of English rather than Hindi. (Depends on who the people you describe are. Migrant labourers – they don’t know English. Hoping them to learn English is too tall a task. And the educated folks, they already are going to be happy if people speak in English in Tamil Nadu. No special effort to make them comfortable is needed. Practically, there are people opposed to that too.) My rationale is that English is already the language of the world and it has reached almost every part of the world. (If you speak to  a French or Spaniard, they will disagree with you. Just goes to say that  the love for language depends on where we stay and how our culture is.)  So why can’t English be the unified language in India? Why Hindi when it’s penetration in India is less successful than English? (How is English’s penetration greater? Hindi has more speakers in India than English. It would be a logistical nightmare to get 1.3 Bn to speak in English, when Hindi is what people are more exposed to) Think and think hard! (Time to think…….)

And remember both our national anthem and national song are in Bengali! (On a closing note, Tamil people do not speak Bengali either. People from Bengal do speak Hindi)

All Hail God !!

Beware! There is a new breed of fundamentalists at loose in the society. They are aggressive, they are abusive and they tolerate no dissent. I came across them in the Republic of Facebookistan. They apparently are also a very vocal majority in places like Unites States of Twitteristan and Republic of Rediff-ia.

I always think of paying obeisance to god before starting with a post. I have ample choices in this regard. At last count, there were 33,000,000 Hindu gods, one Muslim god, and three Christian gods – bringing the grand total of my choices to 33,000,004. I could choose any one of them and proceed with my work. But then it hit me. There was a new entrant in this elite club of 33,000,004. And it was essential that I bow my head to this new entrant irrespective of my faith or whim. Presenting Sachin Tendulkar..

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This universal fact – Sachin Is God – has been thrown on me all over the country. From the seedy bars of Moradabad to the glitzy pubs of Bangalore, from stinking beaches of Madras to dingy alleys of Delhi. It is a non-negotiable fact – because duh, it is a fact that is universal. My stupidity has been exposed time and again by the devotees of Sri Sri Sachin baba. After all, statistics prove that Sachin is our God. And religion is after all, a science. Faith needs numbers to back it up.

I always thought Sachin was a great athlete – a prodigy. Or a once in a generation cricketer. I think his superhuman miracles have been eluding me because I have been sitting huddled in a cave. My Bad!!

I still remember, the day he decided to retire from one days. The frenzy of the fans – they declared “Cricket” dead that day. Trillions of devotees declared that they would stop watching One Day Internationals. Billions declared that they would stop watching cricket altogether  Never mind, if IPL is the only cricket they have ever seen.

But do we remember the day when Sachin was booed in Wankhede? And do we remember telling our friends that it is time that Sachin should retire and make way for youth?? Do we remember arguing in favor of his retirement? No, our memories are so loyal. They only exist as we want them to. We only remember what we want to remember. In extremes.

If I was Sachin, I would probably sit in the corner of a cricket field and weep. Weep out loud. Weep at the IQ of my fans. Weep at the replacement MY loyal devotees brought – a certain Sir Ravindra Jadeja. Weep at the blindness of fans to not see true genius. Weep at the whimsical nature of fans, which makes them make a god of a mortal, and which then makes them trash the same god. Weep at the stubbornness of fans to lose faith in their gods. And weep at the illusion of power the fans have, that they control time.

While I decide whether to accept an imperfect god, maybe the devotees can start looking for their next messiah. A few already have hopes from the Son of God. Till you make up your minds, let me begin…

Long Live Lord Sachin!!

While Heroes Rise And Heroes Fall…

The Words Of A Book

So we meet again. We have met before. Don’t think I am a specific book. Think of me as any book that you want me to be. I maybe the fantasy book you read as a child. I may be the Textbook you open just before the exam. I may be the self-help book you read when you are low. I may be the Holy Scripture that you don’t read and wish that you do. I am me – in different forms. But I am – at the end of day a book. And I and you share a bond that is deeper than you would have thought of.

What am I? Contrary to popular perception, I am not the bunch of paper – stacked and bound. No Dear. I am the idea that I carry. Beneath the cover, and hidden in the maze of black and white – I am an idea. You are my creator. I was born in a head like yours. I sustain myself by your interaction. I was born to spread the idea. Once I am read, I don’t die. I evolve. I live on in a tiny corner of your brain – slowly influencing your life. I interact with the many other thoughts that you have imbibed. And we all subject you mind to a constant state of churn. I have a life of my own inside the reader’s mind.

I have caused wars. And I have caused peace. I am the cure for many a disease. I have chronicled all the progress from the day your kind remembers. I have caused a million mutinies and I have heralded many a revolution. Some cultures worship me. I am the unsung hero behind every successful person. I have spawned movies. And I have spawned plays. Internet is my ally. It has made me more popular and accessible.

Image Courtesy: Abhinav Sethi @ Bookworm, Bangalore

From since you were very young, I have been with you. You are what you are – partly because of the lovely genes your parents gave you, and partly for how you built a relationship with me. I have been used in many ways alternate by you – from a trophy to a pillow. For some, I am a friend. For others an enemy. I have seen your eyes light up when you see me. And I have seen your mouth go “YAAAWN” too. Some of you accept me as I am. Swallow my idea whole. Some of you fight with me. Fight with each and every word that I am. And I love those battles. I just want to tell you, I love you all. I evoke passion in a few of you. And in few, I evoke a sense of awe.

I come in all shapes and sizes. I am sold for pennies – and I am auctioned for millions. I come in hardcover  and I come in paperback  I come with colorful photos and images. And I come in dry black and white. I am found in premium book stores. And I am found in dingy alleys. I am found in libraries. And I am found in barber shops. I am your companion when on a journey. And I am the partner you end up sleeping with in the night. I am loved by people when I am fresh white. And I am valued when I am old and yellowed. I come in many genres. I am read by the young and the old. The black and the white – and the browns. I am adored by the rich and the poor. The boys and the girls. I am the weapon of choice for the right wing and the left. The capitalist and the socialist. I do not discriminate. I am omnipresent. Oh my God, Do I sound like God?

I have feelings too. I am not disappointed when you blurt “What Rubbish” after reading me. I am not hurt one bit when I get torn. I find it fun when I see you look at my price tag and haggle with the uncle at the Bookstore. You leave your mark on me when you make your jottings on me. They are like scars of the battle that I fight with your mind. And I adorn them proudly, showing off to the other readers what I have gone through.

I find it annoying when you tell your friend “not to read” me as I am full of gibberish. That is the biggest disservice that you are doing to your friend. For now, he will never be able to experience me – and I might just have changed his life. You fail to understand that though both of you are humans, the dissimilarities in the ways your minds function outweigh your commonalities.

I came into existence for a reason. I exist to spread the idea. Like you, I too look forward to the journey of life. But many of you imprison me. Lock me up in your cupboards  I was not born to adorn your shelf. Set me free. Give me your friend. Let him experience me. And let him pass on his friend. Let her experience me. A bookshelf overflowing with books resembles a prison to me. I am not a trophy for show off. Respect me. Show me your love by allowing me to go on the adventure that I have always longed for. You will find a book more special than me, if only you were to look.

Hold my hand. And let us walk on the journey of life… Amen !

We Are All Criminals Now…

We have seen the mobs at the gates, baying for the blood of the rapists and the corrupt. We have heard their slogans of how the leaders are 6-letter words. And we have seen them cheer when they see a messiah on TV who reminds them of the real Mr. India – Gandhi. And we call these mobs our new hope – the dawn of a new nation, a new chapter in the crooked chronicles of our recent history.

Excuse me, but am I the only one who is scared? Who are we trying to fool?? And pray, how are these misguided missiles supposed to be heralding the new dawn???

I agree the nation is being looted by our political class. I agree that we have moved away from the ideals of our constitution – if not in letter, than at least in spirit. But if you are looking towards who is to be blamed for these, you only have to look in the mirror.

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We cheered for Anna. We cheered for the youth who rioted in the citadels of power. We all lost faith in democracy. We all consequently lost faith in our constitution. We are all Naxal. We are all criminals.

Remember the last time you leched at the girl in the mall? Ogled at all those western-dress wearing girls in college?? Or maybe you are the Manmohan Singh type – who did not do all these, but then did not stop your friend(s) either. All this was in good jest of course. After all you are the one who draws the lines of morality in the society. So it is ok to lech, pass lewd comments, ogle – totally harmless. But anything more than that – the punishment, as demanded by you, my friends should be hanging. We are all guilty as charged. We are all criminals.

So Naxals are bad – they killed CRPF soldiers in Dantewada. They rigged the bodies of soldiers with explosives. Such dastardly acts they committed – acts worth condemning on Facebook and Twitter. But has anyone given a thought as to what those soldiers were doing in “Maoist infested” areas? They were in the warzone. They were fighting the war for the state – against people whose voice the state decided to muzzle so that the power plant could come up or the mine could be operationalized. The power generated was supposed to light up your homes and power your computers – so that you can post your comments on Facebook. Forget the few hundred Crore bribes, that was coincidental – FOCUS. They were fighting a goddamn war. And Wars are not like what Burkha Dutt shows on TV. Wars do not come with Hollywood-sized special effects and Sunny Deol style heroism. Wars are ugly, barbaric and gruesome. And if you cannot accept this gruesomeness, you can either put an end to the war, or switch off your idiot box.

We look forward to a mass-murderer leading our nation. We think it is his approach to development that is guiding our judgment. A few thousand odd people dead are coincidental. So what, if the man’s flaws are all brushed aside with the broom of Right wing’s rants. By choosing him – we are endorsing a communal dictatorial leader. Even if the choices are limited to corrupt buffoons or goons, we still rationalize well by saying it is his developmental plans that are impressive. We are all complicit in the mass murder. We are all communal. We are all criminals.

We demand an investigation into the war crimes perpetuated on Tamils by the Lankan army. A noble demand. How about an impartial UN investigation in the human rights violations in Kashmir? Do I hear “What Human Rights?”, “Sovereignty”, “Propaganda”? I rest my case. And pay attention to the political correctness of the words. “Indian Tamils” are protesting. “Indian Muslims are protesting”. Am I the only one who feels that it should be “Tamil Indians” and “Muslim Indians”? Is national identity only brought to the fore during IPL (remember Mumbai Indians” huh)? And where were the same people who are fasting for a probe, when the crimes were being committed?  We are all seditious. And we are all criminals.

We cry ourselves hoarse when an industrialist builds a 39 story hideous looking apartment on prime piece of real estate and gifts it to his wife. How can he do this when there are millions starving? Last I checked, we had given up on socialism and embraced capitalism. I mean it is ok to build a 30 story apartment. No?  Or is 20 enough?? Who decides?? Whiners, who will never be able to build a similar structure, never generate a single job, but will happily buy their groceries from his Retail stores. We all share the socialist- naxalite ideology. And we are all criminals.

You know, how I concluded that the Indian youth as a solution is worse than the problem on hand. I switched on MTV. And I saw Roadies. And I saw the auditions. And then I saw IPL. And then I saw people going “Dil Jumping Japang”. And then I was reassured that I am not the craziest person in this country.

“It is never too late to do the right thing. But do we know what the right thing is?”

P.S. Don’t be serious. You and I know that you are right. I am just playing with your heads. Next post will make you laugh “Pinky Promise”!!!

True Grief

We think we have it tough. We face break-ups. We come face-to-face to live with broken dreams. With broken hearts. Broken promises. Disappointments. Failure. Rejection. Pah, tough life we have. But at least we all have something – someone to talk to. It could be someone in the family, maybe a friend, maybe a relative. Man Humans being social animals, no one is truly alone. But what if we have to face it all alone?

I stumbled upon a video on YouTube today. It showed a dog attending the funeral of his master – a soldier who had lost his life in Afghanistan. It was touching to see the dog sit right through the entire service. And what it felt – it was able to express without saying a word. We can all empathize with humans in such a case. But can we empathize with the quantum of loss faced by a mute animal.

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True Grief – Indeed…

When a person loses someone, he or she ultimately finds a way to overcome the grief. The loss can be rationalized – made bearable by moving to a new place, finding new friends, engaging in a hobby or taking a break. Some people immerse themselves into their work with renewed vigor. But what about a dog? Or a cat for that matter?? For a pet, the master means the world. They look at relationships in a way which is different from what humans look at relationships. For them, there is no give and take – their feelings are unconditional. The lives of the pets are entwined with the lives of their master.

When the master dies, how can a pet rationalize? Does a dog understand Karma, or what war means, what disease means?? The passing of the master leaves a void in their hearts – which they can never channelize anywhere. They can only brood – with a confused daze. Depression must be killing for them. They have no words to express their loss and frustration. No psychologists to understand and counsel them. No PlayStations to divert their minds. No hobbies. No books. No music. Nothing but a stare into the hollowness of time…

We must be lucky then, that we are humans – for any loss is ultimately bearable.

For the man’s best friends – it must be Hell…

Advice Anyone? A Conversation …

One fine day, I was travelling on the train from Hyderabad to Bangalore – chugging along at a pace that can only be described as serene. It was drizzling and there was an air of calmness all around. The train was due to reach its destination in a couple of hours. I was looking forward to reaching Bangalore as it was quite some time since I had been to Bangalore. Looking forward to meeting friends after a long time – the excitement always gets to you :)

Lost in my own thoughts while gazing outside, I suddenly heard a voice “Saar!!!’…

Jolted, I turned around to see a man with greying hair and receding hairline – eyes tired by the waves of time. There was a flicker of smile over his face. I responded with a “Yes Uncle” which suggested neither enthusiasm nor coldness. I wanted to be done with whatever conversation we were about having. The view outside was breathtaking and I am never cool with speaking to strangers. I had a stock of replies ready to the expected usual questions “We will reach Bangalore by 9:00″, “Time is 7″, “Breakfast – I am not sure”, “I stay in Hyderabad” and the like.

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The Man, let us call him “Joe” for convenience. Joe asked me “Saar, Are you an engineer?” I was momentarily taken aback. Was he psychic, or was being an engineer so common that you could literally walk into any youth expecting him to be an engineer? I did not ask him how he found that out, but I did answer in the affirmative.

Wisdom says that Interesting conversations begin with a leap of faith…

The usual questions followed, “Saar, which college?” and all. It was like we were both sizing each other up before getting to the crux of the conversation – his questions were guarded under the guise of smile, and my replies were cagey, egging him to unveil his motive.

The A-HA moment came. With a hidden wave of emotion in his eyes, he asked “Saar, my son has just completed his SSLC, should he pursue Engineering?”

This post is not about what my reply to him was. This post captures something deeper – which can only be felt. I wanted to tell him “Obviously”. I wanted to tell him of how IT was booming and our country needed engineers. I wanted to tell him how, in his society, Engineers are respected. I wanted to tell him how the job prospects were better for an Engineer compared to other fields. I wanted to tell him how Medical was tough and expensive. I wanted to tell him that Engineering is not a Degree, but an experience, which will shape up his life – and that his son will never regret the years of Engineering life.

And then I wanted to tell Joe something else too. I wanted to tell him how the quality of engineering education in our country is primitive. I wanted to tell him how a vast majority of engineers end up in the great I.T machine of our country – slaving off typing codes. Or how they end up in various call-centers faking accents to earn money that will only be blown up on McDonalds, CCDs and the like. I wanted to tell him of the hordes of Engineers who do not get a job. Or end up warming the benches of I.T. companies. I wanted to tell him of how engineers are dime a dozen in this country – mostly unemployable. I wanted to tell him how the promise of a better tomorrow rarely comes true for an engineer. I wanted to tell him how an engineer has to ride his luck hoping to make it big.

And then I wanted to tell Joe some more. I wanted to tell him “Uncle, ask your son what he wants to do.” I wanted to tell him of all the ifs and buts and industry dynamics which are determinants of success. I wanted to tell him “Uncle, I want to talk to your son and know him better before I can answer this question.” I wanted to tell him that I believed his son was special, and thus was made for greater things. I wanted to tell him that that his son could find better success if he became a singer, dancer, actor or painter. I wanted to tell him of my many friends who were disgrace to the engineering community, but were more than successful in their lives. That I had no idea why there were so many branches of Engineering when all they did was the same menial work. I wanted to tell him that the brand of the college matters. And I wanted to tell him that the brand of the college does not matter. I wanted to tell him that a degree from an IIT is the be all and end all. And I wanted to tell him that IITs rank nowhere when seen from the global perspective. I wanted to ask him to talk to more people and get expert advice. And I wanted to tell him that people are ignorant, expert advice is all hogwash – and that he should create the path of his own destiny.

But more importantly, I wanted to confess – that I was simply not qualified to answer a question which could shape the life of his child. I was a mere Engineer who had barely seen the world. And knowing the wisdom of the many elders I knew, they would probably be less helpful – not with their bigoted views and partisan outlook towards life. I knew not what all the world had to offer. And that I was as ignorant as ignorance can be.

And I wanted him to know – that if he let his son be – and gave him the right values to follow his heart – then he should rest knowing that he had done a great job.

When we reached Bangalore finally, I don’t know if I had helped Joe with his questions, but he sure had helped me find my answers…